Things that make you sad, angry, or upset.

[GreatBigAbyss]

Most of the families on my street are New Canadians, and their kids are always outside playing when the weather is nice. The parents of the really young'uns are usually standing outside supervising.

[RRocket]

Man parenting nowadays must be so hard.  Such a balance of not doing something wrong and not spoiling your kids to the point they are little cunts. 

Nope, not hard at all. At least we didn't think so. Was easy to set rules and boundaries and to reinforce them. We weren't his "friend" or "pal". We were his parents. We were firm with the rules and boundaries but fair. Just simple repetition from a very young age. It was his "normal".

The biggest issue I see these days is parents being totally incapable of saying "No" to their kids.

I know I shared this story before but it's always stuck with me. On the boy's Grade 8 overnight field trip when we droppeded him off, of the 100+ kids there he was the ONLY one carrying his own luggage. Every other kid there had their parents carrying their stuff as if the parents were their porters or servants.

Gross.

[Johnnymac]

Man parenting nowadays must be so hard.  Such a balance of not doing something wrong and not spoiling your kids to the point they are little cunts. 

Nope, not hard at all. At least we didn't think so. Was easy to set rules and boundaries and to reinforce them. We weren't his "friend" or "pal". We were his parents. We were firm with the rules and boundaries but fair. Just simple repetition from a very young age. It was his "normal".

The biggest issue I see these days is parents being totally incapable of saying "No" to their kids.

I know I shared this story before but it's always stuck with me. On the boy's Grade 8 overnight field trip when we droppeded him off, of the 100+ kids there he was the ONLY one carrying his own luggage. Every other kid there had their parents carrying their stuff as if the parents were their porters or servants.

Gross.

I tend to think that you and IQ have a bit more will power than a lot of people when it comes to being disciplined parents.  Me and my wife just chose to skip the whole parent thing altogether as we didn't feel like it was a role either of us ever aspired to take on.  Could we have had kids and been good parents, probably, but that isn't the main reason to have kids.